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Dedicated to the counsellors and
psychologists who are presented
with this defence mechanism

 

 

 

                           DISSOCIATION


  In the land of Psyche investigation probes or hounds and defenses abound

            Go too deep too quick or even slow through the layers to a core

                             And you might find there is no-one no more


                                  Where did they go one wants to know

                                       Was it to float up to the ceiling?

              Was it to be driven further into deeper cover of amnesic reeling?

                                       To hide by allowing time to bide


                                                Just an empty shell

                  As the occupant vacates from the distress of traumatic hell

                                   Perhaps some signs of hasty leaving

                  Responses to unfinished, disowned or unattended grieving

                             The last remains of blast-off - a hasty cast-off


   Disintegration anxiety threatens the total annihilation of one’s very humanity


                    Components flee into opposite camps inside one’s head

                                  To escape what is in the Land of Dread

                         A causality of consciousness to continue operating

                                    Unhampered in another inner faculty

                                           Between illusion and reality


                    Mr. Dissociation – Mercurius the archetype of all this hype

                 A lascivious under-world daemon – the transporter to oblivion

           Provides a path of least resistance back into a safe self-care system

        That watches out for this innocent by feeding it with soothing substitutes

                 As long as this wounded or naive creature listens to it’s keeper     


                Fairytales describe this relationship well in the stories they do tell

                                 Rapunzel and her witch – that daemonic bitch

                               Locks her high in the tower – a protective bower

                                             Only with one means of escape

                                  A rope of hair over the window sill does drape


                                    The therapist must climb this umbilical vine

                                 Follow this thread to the space inside her head

                                                                  And

                                                      Persuade the Maid

                                To give up this fantasy and come back into reality


                                                 How is this done pray say?

                                             Is a discussion for another day?


Eliza Burke


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